Hey there, Kimberly Olsen here, also known as the golden girl, I'm a number one, international best-selling author, multiple 7 figure earners, social media, marketing expert, on your vocal, and branding, and job.

I'm on a mission to inspire you to get lit.

Your business, set your soul on fire, and teach you how to build your Empire.

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Join us as we dive into action oriented strategies that are going to allow you to scale your online business and create simple systems that duplicate.

Let's get started.

Hey everyone.

Kimberly Olsen here back for another episode of the gold digger girl, podcast.

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And today I'm so excited because I have one of my dear friends, she's also a client and I've gotten to know her over the last few years and I consider her just just incredible human in my life.

And I want to share her with you today.

So welcome on the shell or so excited to have you.

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My gosh girlfriend.

I cannot wait for the world to get a chance to be part of our conversation because every time we do energy gets raised and we get a chance to just like the world of.

So This is so much fun.

Yes, I totally agree.

I love it.

And you are a woman after my own heart because we have similar values and beliefs and goals and we just really want to make a difference in this world.

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And you are absolutely doing that by being courageous and taking some of the steps that you've taken in your own life to bring us to the point of having this conversation today.

So I feel like a lot of people probably know you in my audience but if not can you share a little bit about who you are and your background and just kind of bring us to present day?

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Yeah.

Yeah.

So I'm dr.

Lewis.

Shall we be?

And I literally you guys just recently left my 20-year anesthesia career to make more money more impact and spend more time with my kids and honestly, that's the journey that I'm on.

That is the obedient path that I've been able to take with God and every single time that I trust him just a little bit, he shows me something even better.

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And so that has led me on this path to to get to know.

You better to be able to help people to really step into where he's asking them to be.

And my focus is really to help women get out of there.

Way and to get out of God's way and to get unstuck so that they can step boldly and beautifully into the purpose that he has for them and they're like the other blah.

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So beautiful.

I love this so much.

And you guys are lucky because you're one of the first to hear about her book that's about to release or few or watching or listening or watching the replay will include details below that you can click through and grab it for her book.

Get out of God's way.

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So you know, it's funny when you were talking at many think that I don't know about you but I do know because I've read your book.

There's so much.

I need to please inside of us, just from our upbringing and be good.

Girls.

And all the things that I think, we actually spend a lot of time doing things for others and we don't actually think about what we want.

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But when we really get touched in tune and touched in touch with, what God wants plan is clear, but why do you think that is?

Why do you think that we don't listen to him?

And I've gone through some some a lot of shifts and it's been what I've listened to him.

So it's like he's big.

It's happening.

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But for so long, I never did that.

So why do you think women do that?

I don't see.

I think it's part of our programming Kimberly, and I think that you, and I both can geek out on brain science for forever.

Right?

So, so much of what we're taught and how we see the world is formed before were seven years old, those are ways when we're being taught literally to just trust what we're being told to and to do what we're being told.

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And when we get to be adults, it's not as easy for us to hear.

What's being told.

We have to intuitively No, feel it, right?

And I think that our programming and leads us to this path of, we have to do what we're supposed to do.

We have to do what we're told to do.

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What we should in air quotes do instead of really being in and listening to the silent small Whispers of the holy spirit that are leading us to where we're supposed to be going.

So I think it's honestly as programming it to us being taught from a very early age that to be a good girl.

We should listen to what the people are telling us to do, and those voices people.

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Yeah, right.

Those hi everybody.

They drown out that inner small subtle voice, they drown out our intuition and I think that it's literally just what we're taught to do at a young age and it's what we get used to doing in the more and more that we grow up into adulthood the harder it is for us to lean into something different.

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Yeah.

For sure.

You kind of get set into that.

Or I also think that you're, you know, your ego your subconscious mind is built up, story around, you breaking the mold that there's not even when you're a little you're just listening and taking it in just Thinking this is what it is, right?

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And then when you get older, when you do contemplate doing something different, you have all this fear, potential like story.

You told yourself that holds you back to, right, right.

Well, that's just it right?

When we're really little.

If somebody tells us that something is true that Santa Claus is going to come down our chimney that the, the tooth fairy's going to, you know, leave money under my pillow.

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Like, we believe it even though we don't see it, right?

But I think that actually grow up and we get into the real world.

We start to see disappointment after disappointment.

Things don't turn out the way we thought they should.

And so we learned to play it safe and I think that we lose some of that innocence that we had when we were really little, to be able to believe in what we can't see.

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And I'm even finding that right now.

My son is almost 14 and a couple of years ago, like he was so open to everything that I was teaching him about the world and what's possible and and even through our faith journey, and now he's getting slowly into this Paradigm of need.

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And to see things to believe them.

And that should be for you goes off the deep end because I really want to keep him you know, in that in that faithful walk because it is hard the world tells us to do with the opposite for sure.

Yeah.

Well what would you say to somebody who they intellectually it will allow even in their heart?

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They know what you're saying is true.

You know, that they have been operating out of that people pleasing and just doing things because they feel like they're supposed to what would be like a starting, like a jumping off point for them.

You start listening to the whispering, you know, the like and I know, and by the way, your book, what I love is just your stories.

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And if you really, guys, if you really want to get to know the real shell and just all she's been through, I read the book, how you go over your story into it, but then, you know, bring it back to them.

But the tools you have practical tools, and there for people, to actually, like Implement and do this work.

But what would you say is like a jumping off point for somebody who is hearing this going, okay?

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She's right.

Like how do I listen to God?

How do I trust like, What's the first step?

So honestly, I think it's really just looking for tiny little signs all around you.

Like what would seem like a coincidence or Serendipity is actually him guiding you and teaching you which tiny little next step to take, right?

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And so that's what I would love for you guys to do is just start to pay attention.

Start to pay attention to patterns that you have.

If you're having conversations with people and the same topic keeps coming up, pay attention to that if you're on social media and you start to notice the same thing, keep coming up in your Feed you guys.

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That is a sign because you and I both know, give really those algorithms are like the devil, right?

And so, yeah, absolutely.

He keeps coming up and bury in in different ways and the message is coming in different ways like that's a sign.

And so what I would love you guys to do is just to start to look at your life in terms of what little tiny breadcrumbs.

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Am I seeing that are leading me to a certain thought or a certain person or a certain action and then see what happens if you step into that in obedience.

I mean, you know, from reading the book can really that I did everything that I was supposed to do in my life, right?

I went to school just like you did think that's why we gravitated towards what?

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Yeah, you know I did all the things I had the job, I got the doctorate, I was teaching at you know, what the I would consider the world's best nurse anesthesia program.

All of those things were where I was supposed to go in air quotes as a, you know, responsible woman.

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Honestly chasing my own worthiness chase scene where I would finally be good enough and it was when I took That tiny little step into obedient.

And I started my first online business, because I kept having conversations, that kept leaning towards it.

I kept seeing things on my social media that kept leaning towards it.

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I couldn't stop thinking about it, that they led me to the decision, to make a tiny little obedient step that completely changed my life.

It completely changed the way that I see everything and I started to see what was possible.

I started to see that the and life was possible.

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I could be a challenge to build professional woman.

In and be as app, really present mom and wife, right?

But it took that tiny little step.

It took me seeing all of those little things.

The other thing that I want to say, because going back to your question is, when were faced with a question of whether you should do something or not?

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I want you guys to ask yourself, does this feel expansive or restrictive?

Mmm.

Oh God.

I love that said, there's just a little bit of excitement even though I'm nervous.

Like, there's a little bit of excitement.

It feels like I could almost breathe bigger it.

Feels like I'm drawn towards it restricted.

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Feels like I have this like little icky gut feeling that doesn't feel good.

It feels like I'm being binder or you know, kind of tracks.

Those are really my subconscious and God's way of telling me, yes or no.

So if it feels expansive, even though it scares the crap out of here, go with that because that is the literally, The Guiding Light that's taking you to that next step.

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It's such a great tool and I so visual like just and what is it?

Can Kinesthetic, like, I like to experience things and do it.

So I think that's really powerful.

So what I'm hearing you say is look for coincidences, notice things because it's all for you, and it's giving a little Clues and things like that, you can even request that, you know, God please bring the right person to me or just could be a penny on the side of the road.

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Showing me, that money is coming, whatever just a little fun, playful things and then taking a step and obedience, even when you're not quite sure you're making that.

You know, action step of faith that you have belief in faith to begin building that conviction.

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What about as?

We both know this experience.

What about the Gap?

So what do you do when you are like, okay?

Like this is what I want.

I want to quit my job and go start the business or, you know, take this leap of faith and do this thing because I really feel like God, that's what God wants me to do, and being obedient.

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What about the Gap?

When you make that decision?

And when it comes to fruition, how do you advise people to keep?

The faith, strong and stay the course.

Yeah, so is as far as like, when they're not seeing the results that they want to see kite is that you're just saying.

Oh my God, for sure.

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So I think that, you know, one of our favorite books, we talked about, this is the gap in the gain, and I think that it's really important that you start to take inventory of the things that you have already accomplished the things that you have done.

Well, I think that if you guys is crazy, like, I'm just going to say this right now.

When I first started my journey after I stepped down from my professional, you know, career at to do.

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All this crazy stuff.

I wasn't seeing the results that I thought I would see.

Like, I literally felt like it was going to happen like the next day, it was just a switch that was flipped, right?

And my gosh, I would like we joked around about this and we can really I'm like, oh my God.

I know I'm a millionaire.

Like, where's the money, right?

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Like why isn't this happening?

And as fast as I thought it was gonna.

And then I started to look at the game.

You guys like for real, listen to me when I say this, this is gives me goosebumps.

So I literally left my job of 20 years.

Cashed in my pension six months ago.

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Okay, six months ago in that six months, I have co-authored a book that's been published.

I just wrote my own solo book.

I put my own Retreat into the world and performed that it was amazing at the beach and you know, several hours away from where I live.

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I spoke on a stage was invited to a bigger stage.

I bought an investment property that I hadn't even ever considered doing like servants who guys Six months.

And even though I didn't feel like, okay well, why isn't this, you know, working as fast as I wanted it to I had a test at back and say, okay, where are the pieces coming together?

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And I was like, holy crap.

All of this stuff is starting to come into play.

Everything is perfectly set into motion and then the next step is then releasing and being present with Within Myself and My, you know, focus.

And so you have to start just trusting the small steps soooo and knowing that the next small step.

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And then the next small step after that, is going to present yourself.

But in the meantime, every once in awhile, look back behind you and say, holy crap, look how far I've come.

Hmm.

And I think we're never hurts to write Kimberly for people like myself to consult experts that have gone a couple steps ahead of us to say, hey, what am I missing?

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Where am I blank?

Which is all coaches.

Should have a coach and I really love helping my clients because what I get to do you guys is I get to take and look at your business and say, okay, like this, probably why you haven't made that big transition yet because I can see your blind spots when we're too close to it.

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It's really hard to see that and so I think you know, finding someone that you trust That's just a couple of steps ahead of you to grab you by the arm and say.

All right let's go and I think that when it comes to to taking this big step in the sleep of leaving your stable career and going into an entrepreneurship, you do want to have somebody in your life that you trust in up almost like I was thinking about this today, like a parent who is walking along the street with you, right?

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They're not going to shove you out to the middle of the road and expect that you cross the street if it's not safe, right?

Am I right?

And so if a good Mentor, good friend, a good coach is not going to say, hey, you should totally quit your job and like, just like play it by ear.

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Let's see what happens.

Like, there's some responsibility.

Yes.

But there's also something to be said about a parent that says, I know this is scary.

This is the first time you've done this.

So take my hand, I got you.

Yeah, right.

I think that's really what it takes is to have somebody in your life that can take you by the hand.

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That's not going to leave you into a traffic, but it's going to allow for you to feel safe because Is a soul open or we feel like it's so scary because we're doing it by ourselves.

We have no one blame, we have no it up.

Pick the pieces up and it's really helpful to have somebody with us.

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Yeah, for sure.

And I think, you know, entrepreneurs were a little crazy, you know, as far as like unconventional and it can feel like weird or different and so, you know, it can be easy for outside influences to talk to you right out of what you're going after or meeting feel real bad.

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And so, So, if you don't have anybody else saying like go girl do this, it can be really easy to think, listen to those people because they're usually people who love and trust you.

So, also being in us a community where people are all rowing in the same direction, they get you.

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And if you have a bad day or they want to celebrate you, this one girl word.

We just met through like another person and she sent me a gift today from instacart to celebrate me today.

Like, it's coming in.

It's like Korean.

Them.

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And I'm like, that is what it's all about.

Like yes, thank you because she knew I was kind of taking a god, LED faith.

God loves step in faith.

She knew kind of what was going on.

And I'm like that, I am so lucky because if I didn't have that, how scary would it be to go this alone?

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And then talk myself out of it, you know, so tell us about your community.

Yes.

So I love love, love, helping women, who are really just needing to step into the next phase of our lives, right?

But Oftentimes, we start to second-guess ourselves.

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We often times will think that everybody else is doing amazing things.

And we suck, right?

Sometimes we just need to be around other people who are considered a saint who recognize our our strengths and and can acknowledge how far we've come.

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Right.

And also to Mastermind, I love masterminding because the quantum physics part of it, right?

Like we get to bring our Consciousness together and come up with some really badass, like Solutions, and When I think about that, that's the type of people that I love to attract.

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So when somebody goes through, my exit strategy is what I call it as my six month program to help you get from where you are to where you really want to be, which is not your 9 to 5.

Now, we also have something called the circle that I allow people to stay in so that we can continue to support.

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We could continue to Mastermind and I bring in experts along the way to make sure that yours, you know, staying on course, and not getting yourself stuck in sabotage and and all the things So those are those are the really fun ways that I love to serve people but I also have a podcast, the unstuck podcast and that's always just a great place to come if you're feeling stuck.

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So get some inspiration and some practical tools to get you unstuck in life and in business.

Yeah, that's a good point too.

Is, you know, as part of, you know, if you're listening or watching and just part of your daily routine is you know listening to the podcast, is something easy that you can do on your own.

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Maybe you're not you know necessarily doing masterminds everyday but like every you know feeding Your your come up with the thoughts that are going to serve you and support you.

So this is why we want to be really mindful of songs.

We're listening to TV shows were watching that kind of thing and podcast.

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You know that's why you know you've had your podcast episodes of you produced.

I feel like you've been going at it for some time now I know it's been I've been doing this for three and a half years so I can't even remember what happened.

That's amazing.

The commitment and guys like you want to be around people.

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Like Lachelle because she's committed, she's going to show up, she's walking the walk, she's talking, the talk and so asking yourself, you know, is this somebody who I want to be like, to I, in my own way, right?

Like surrounding yourself with other people.

I think is so important and just feeding your mind with that too.

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So how us about the book launch?

What can we expect?

I mean we'll be dropping this whenever you want.

So you just frame the conversation based off of that, when's it coming out?

Where can people find out about it?

Who is it for Gasps, oh my goodness.

So I just got to tell you guys that if you have a desire in your heart, then you want to accomplish something you're just going to have to acknowledge that desire and then make the decision to make it happen and then do the thing.

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And that's what the book is really about.

But erratically Kimberly.

And I are both part of a empowerment conference that's coming up in may actually and when they asked me, if I needed a table for a book, I was like, you know what?

And I think get back to you on that and I literally called a friend and I'm like is this even possible?

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Possible to get a book like in print by May and she's like, yeah, but you have to have a written by, you know, excellent.

All right, we're doing this right.

And so is going to be out here, the first part of May and you guys are going to be able to have access to it, possibly even before that.

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So I don't know Kimberly.

Like I'm trying to yeah maybe however you want them to get notified of the release.

We can put them on a waitlist whatever you want.

We'll put that below.

Okay?

So you guys just if you're like I want to know in this book comes out and we also really want to make this successful when she launches it because we're both.

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So so passionate about God's work and you know how he's changed our lives and he's are each individually.

Our business partners that please, you can support this launch to really make it successful and get it out there.

I really appreciate it and we'll be promoting it to.

So, if you're following this podcast, and I'm assuming you're getting notifications and all of that, but please share it out, like put it in your Or stories, you know taglish L where are you little weenie on all your platforms.

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And I'm you keep it super, super simple.

So Atlas Shelby me in is wi eme.

So yeah, so wi eme and, you know, one of the things can really that, you know, when I even asked to be part of this conference and I decided to make the book a possibility that was really what the book is about.

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It's really knowing that we all are given this desire on our And I think a lot of times when we grow up in the church, we feel guilty, if we want really nice things, we feel guilty, we want wealth, and abundance, and that we're being selfish or self-centered or all of those things.

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And I think that, unfortunately, that programming has really led us to not fully accepting to step into all of the beautiful abundance that God has for us in our lives, right?

So, it's recognizing that when he puts desires on our hearts, it's him that plant some there, and it's our job to be obedient and to follow his lead, right?

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So, I helped people get really clear on where he is.

Leaving you.

And how you can step into that.

If you have no idea or if you already have a business, you want to make sure that you're you know, really honing in on where he has you that is going to help you to be really solidly secure and clear on where you're supposed to go.

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And then what I do is I get over the fears, get over the self-sabotage, get over the mindset blocks, when it comes to money, get over the Imposter phenomenon, get over all the things that hold us back and so that we can truly step into it and make the decision.

Where it's like, I'm going to do this hell or high water.

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Like there's nothing that's going to stop me.

I'm going to meet the people.

I need to meet.

I'm going to learn what I have to learn and it's really just taking on this sense of being this owning it.

I may or may not have a tattoo that says that.

Like that's how that's how like committed I feel to this.

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Okay, I've had a podcast for three and a half years because I've decided to have a podcast with three and a half years like don't allow the excuses to come in or I don't feel like I don't know who I am.

And talk about like figure it out, right?

And then the last Thing is the doing and that's the consistency part.

It's the showing up consistently.

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That is what's going to get you traction?

And so I share some of my very best habits that have helped me be consistent even though I had a full-time job.

And a family.

When I started my first online business, I literally was working halftime of the operating room to Nancy, Jeff halftime.

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As a professor, I was traveling the country.

Speaking on anesthesia seminars, I was finished out.

My doctorate degree, I did not have any freaking time and so to be able to scale that To a point where I could step away, I had to get really creative and very organized and I am not an organized person.

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I had to make the decision to become organized, right?

So you create systems, and processes and organization and time management tools and and habits that are going to help you be consistent so that you can do the dang thing and of that I weave in quantum physics and some brain sciences and scriptures.

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That you have all this cool you know, cocktail of things that are Going to help you to create sustainable change because I don't want this to be a fad, guys.

I want this to be something that completely changes your life, and helps you to step into your purpose without the dang excuses.

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Hashtag no regrets.

Right.

We're gonna do this.

We're gonna we're going to walk into this next season of our lives and say dang it.

I am so freaking proud of myself that I did that and the thing that that lights me up.

The thing that guides me, every step of the way is the parable of the servants.

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And in that Parable you guys, A that that the master had given three of his servants of various set of coins or talents and two of them went out and reinvested, their talents, and made the kingdom better, right bigger and he rewarded them.

Well done, good.

And faithful servant while the third one buried his talents in the sand because he was afraid of becoming irresponsible or losing them or disappoint in his master.

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Do not bury your freaking coins, people do not have the talent that he has given you because that is wasting.

What he's getting weekly equipped you for the time is this will step into it, get over your dang, self, get into alignment with where he's asking you to go and watch what he can do through you, because that is what's going to be fun.

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Kimberly, I are going to be sitting here watching you guys just freaking crush your goals and it's because those to be obedient and step in even though you were scared crapless, right?

Good shows.

Yes.

You chose to, to make the decision, you chose to own it and now look at what you've been able to accomplish.

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So much fun.

Oh my gosh, it's so good.

That makes me want to go read it again.

Kudos to you for promoting it because you're so passionate about it and your you didn't write it just to write it.

Like you're living this.

Like I said, and you really really know that this is going to change people's lives.

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And so I'm so excited about this book launch.

We're going to make it a success.

It's going to be incredible.

So definitely want you guys to be a part of it so we'll include all the links to all the things below and you're out this podcast episode was helpful or you're watching this makes Sure, you take a screenshot any part of it and throw it in your stories and tag myself and Michelle.

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So we can give you a shout-out for doing now and Lashelle.

Thank you so much for being on.

I just always loved anytime I can get with you but just to share your knowledge and wisdom and passion with you with my audience, really appreciate it.

Thank you so much for being able to, to promote this and support me and for all the things.

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Thanks friend.

I appreciate you, of course, absolutely.

Well, thank you guys for listening and watching and as always until Time get lit.

Your business and set your soul on fire.

We'll see you soon.

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