I Give Myself Permission to Trust Myself, with Generator LaChelle Wieme

with Courtney Koenig and Dr. LaChelle Wieme

In this episode of Become, you'll discover how to unlock your inner superpowers and create a life of purpose and abundance using Human Design. LaChelle Wieme, a spiritual entrepreneur and manifester, shares her insights on embracing your unique gifts, overcoming self-doubt, and finding alignment with your true self.

You'll learn how to harness your energy, make aligned decisions, and build a supportive tribe that fuels your soul.

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I Give Myself Permission to Trust Myself, with Courtney Koenig and Dr. LaChelle Wieme

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I'm Kourtney Konaig and I'm igniting your human design

to become a powerful profitable

purposeful boss of your business

of your career and of your life

we have dark Michelle Willem on

and she is a spiritual LED mantra mon renewer

who knows what it's like to juggle a career

a family and a deeper calling

and we've met through a similar coaching program

and she has the most beautiful energy

the most beautiful spirit um

she's helping women

who are called to step into their divine purpose

and she just sent me her bio over

and it's so beautiful even through her bio um

these parts of her chart are coming out

and I'm gonna be sharing all her generator

things with you so I like you to welcome on Michelle

hi Michelle hey girlfriend

how are you good

how are you thank you so much for coming on today

yes I was so excited

anytime I get a chance to spend time with you

Courtney is a gift so thanks for having me on today

oh you're the best

I'm so so excited

um we love to get to know our coaches first

um so is there a show or a book or um

something that you've been into lately

yeah like that I'm like engulfing myself with right now

like what I'm learning and stuff

oh my gosh just anything

like it can be light or can be like

oh I dived into this like zone of genius whatever

I don't care you dad no

oh my gosh like I'm such a nerd

like I wish that I had something really fun

but I love learning about quantum physics haha

which is so weird

but everything to do with just like how

um

basically science is finally catching up with Scripture

which is super super fascinating to me

so I love this

how everything is marrying itself together and just

yeah I don't know

I'm such a nerd though I know that

I love that oh my goodness

okay so where is um

a favorite place that you've traveled to

that you just love oh my goodness

anywhere by the beach is like my favorite honestly

but I'm really really into the national parks lately

and so my plan is next summer to literally

we're looking at either renting or buying an RV

and traveling the country for two

and a half months

and just seeing as much as we can see

so that's what our plan is

so yeah I

I just love I just wanna see the world

I just I'm so wonderless

I love to see things but yet I'm a homebody

so either I'm like on a plane or I'm in my

you know comfy clothes on my on my couch haha

yes working from your couch

that is the best place yes

yes do you have a favorite beach that you love

that you just like could go to over and over again

cause I'm totally a beach person

I do you know what's funny is that it's a really um

unassuming but I love Daytona Beach actually

yeah it's not like everybody is

you know top favorite

but I love it it's a super like chill

relaxed vibe there it's not

quite as hoity toity as some of the other places that

are in Florida and so it's really chill

people are really down to earth

the beach is stunning the water is clear

and yeah it's just a fun place to be

so we like to go there

we go there probably at least once a year

so yeah well

that's awesome that's so great

well um

I am so excited to jump into your human design

and to

see this thing that's running throughout your chart

so um

there you know

there's five different design types

and one of them is a generator

and you are a generator and um

what I'm a projector

and one of my gifts is

I have a lot of abilities to see and to feel

what needs to be said or what needs to be spoken about

so when I read your chart there again

you saw the chart you're like

there's so much to it right yeah

so many different pieces um

and my brain just can't memorize all of them

you know

so I just look at what is it being called to talk about

you know what is your soul wanting you to hear

and then we'll dive into those messages

so as a generator

you have this immense sustainable energy

you have this abundance ability to work

this energy and stamina to finish tough projects or

use your energy and stamina to create new offers

to show up in your coaching program

to show up in your nursing

and to also show up wherever you want to

with your family wherever that is

you have the energy to do so

now that is very special

that is extremely special

that you can do all these things

and have the energy to do it

but what you have to is you not only have the energy

to work through tough projects

hit tough goals

but you have the energy to cheer on your team

while you do so

so you're surrounding yourself with a team

and you cheer them on not only cheering yourself

on but you cheer on your team as well

now this especially happens

when you're working in your whole hearted work

it doesn't feel like work

it doesn't feel like oh

here we go again you know

type of thing it's excitement to get out of bed

it's excitement opening it

and fueling your coaching practice and expanding this

it's energizing it refuels you

and when you're working in your wholehearted work

you're magnetic and you draw people towards you

without having to do anything extra

it's just like hey

this is Michelle doing her thing

and people are like a magnet to you

they wanna hear what you're doing

they wanna hear

um what your business offerings are next

you know they wanna jump on board

and you

people are also in awe of what you can accomplish

through all this magnetic energy

through this um

immense ability to hit these goals

and to hit the next level

so um

how tell me

how does your work not feel like work

how does your coaching practice

does it feel like work

because you're doing what you love

yeah I mean

I think that I just really

really really love to connect with people

and I love to just create

create things and see how

my creations can help and bless other people

but I love the connection part of it

so I feel like whenever I'm with someone

and I get a chance to like

see what it is they're doing

and I I

I don't know according

I feel like my whole life

it's like I mine diamonds out of things

like I love to put together outfits

I love to put together you know

home decoration I love to

to put together courses I love to put together um

strategies for people that they can't see

their own unique gifts

and so when I get a chance to like

mine things out of people

and I get a chance to help them see

what they're capable of and I get a chance

like put together this beautiful package

of all the pieces of the puzzle for them

that they can't see themselves

like it lights me up and I

I don't know it's just like the creation part of it

but I also feel like you know

you were staying with the generator thing

like I do I love anesthesia

that's what I do for my my other career

I love being a mom

I love doing the things that I can with my kids

so I think that

the fact that I do enjoy all of those different things

and I maintain the energy

to make sure that I can fit

all of those things into my life

totally makes sense with the

with the reading that you gave me

that totally makes sense because in anesthesia

you have to be right on point

you know and you show up daily

it's not like you can be like

and I have an off day sorry

can't be there you know

but the same thing goes for your coaching clients too

you know

you're expecting Michelle to show up and you can do it

you know and you can show for your family

and have all those things come towards you

now

one thing with generators that we have to watch out for

and I think sometimes it's so good to know like okay

what do we need to watch out for you guys is this um

burnout right

well yeah

this is my grade burnout

because you can do all the things

you pretty much signed up to do all the things haha

yeah and so you're like

and you want to do all the things

you have this in multiple go and more into this

but you have this drive and this willpower to do all

yes yeah

so you just kind of pile it on right

well you're human

you know um

and so you're going to have that burnout

you know you're going to need to take care of yourself

and to nurture yourself

and that is one of the greatest gifts that we can give

each to ourselves

as business owners and as women

is to nurture ourselves and to really show up and

fuel that fire that is within us

um because what happens is once we do so

it helps everybody else right

yeah whatever we do for ourselves helps

everybody else that we come in contact with

so um

do you have like

a weekly or a daily way that you pour into yourself

that um

or is this been a struggle right

yeah no

I mean I think that I've gotten better over time right

I think something as simple as just learning to say no

even when something that like

sounds so amazing and so much fun

I've Learned to really get intuitive and say

is this the right time for this right

because literally like my whole life I've thought

oh that project looks fun

that project looks fun let's do that

and then my plate fills up

almost like I'm filling my plate full of dessert right

and then I get to the point where my plate is so full

and I have a stomach ache

and I wanna like throw it all up

like that's kind of like how my life is always gone

like oh

that looks fun that looks fun

and so I think that I've had to learn the hard way of

really just asking myself and asking my higher self

whether or not the timing is right for this thing

so that's probably one of things

just literally learning to say no and having boundaries

um I love naps

great I love naps

like my friends make fun of me

they got me a cup that said competitive napper

it doesn't have to be very long

like 15 minutes but I just love the

I love just the recharging that I get from that

and then just snuggling with my kids

that completely charges me up

and so yeah

those are the kind of the things that I

that I really really love to do

and then of course

I mean you probably are the same

I have an amazing morning routine that I do

that fills me up that peels me up

that gives me all of the the intention

and the energy that I need for the rest of the day

for sure

oh that's so beautiful

and I love that you've given yourself that permission

to do so and it's to you um

coach your clients in that way too

to give themselves permission to refuel

yes oh

my goodness because just like you said

if we don't take care of ourselves

like how are we ever going to take care of other people

and you know

I took a different anesthesia assignment just recently

last week with my first week

and I was completely overwhelmed

with all of the new things

I was learning like

even where to find the bathroom

and how do I chart this and

and so I was able to talk to one of my coaching clients

I'm like here's the deal

I don't think I'm gonna be able to give you my best

today can we reschedule

you know and

and she's like absolutely

cause I wanted to make sure that I gave her my very

very best because she deserves my best when we talk

and so not only am I doing that to serve her and myself

but I'm also modeling for her

that we have to be able to listen to ourselves

in order for us to be able to serve in the best way

we have to be able to recognize that

and to be able to act in that

so I think modeling for that is really

important to the people that I work with

as well

yes and I love that because it's really transparent

it's like hey

this is this is life you know

I was talking to a friend and she works in finance

and she was saying how

that they're having to come back into the office

you know and her big Fortune 500

company is like okay

we're gonna have to start coming back

you guys she's like

I don't know how I'm gonna balance all of this stuff

you know yeah

and so um

we talked through like

how do you build that support around yourself

you know but each design type needs support

and some are counterintuitive like

like resting and renewing

you know

and making sure that you have that for yourself

and then pointing that out to your clients to like hey

this is a need and not just a want

let's give yourself permission to do this

so that everything flows with ease and more power

and I love how you you know

have such a in tune

perception of all of the different design types

because I think that sometimes

what I get from people all the time is

I don't know how you do it all

I don't know how you do it all

and it's like you know what

I think that part of what drives me though

is that that's fun to do all of the things right

and so

I wanna just remind people to not compare themselves

to allow themselves to be sacred to their own design

and to be like okay

so she's a generator

like she loves to have a crazy life and be busy and

and do all of the billion things right

that doesn't mean that I have to too

that doesn't mean that I'm less than

if I don't do all of the things

and so

I think that it's so beautiful how you are able to

to recognize like our gifting and help us

you know shield ourselves from that comparison trap

right yes

yeah that's the thank you

I and that's how when I human design myself

and when I started getting just human design

I was like well

let's let me try this out on myself

and I realized I was like

in 45 years I feel so much better about myself in like

one month than I have in such a long time

cause I was comparing myself to generators

my husband's a generator

I see generators and I work with tons of generators

tons of manifesting generators

and they have built in energy supplies

whereas projectors we do not

and so we have to create support around that

you know but managing those expectations is everything

yeah everything

how we show up yeah

I love that um

another part of your chart is um

your profile now profile is your personality

and it's made up of two numbers and yours is 6 2

and this is towards the top of your chart

and the first number is the way you see yourself

and the second number is the way other see you

now sometimes

we have blind spots for how do we see ourselves operate

and or how do others see us

and so yeah more that we can lean into these gifts

the more that um the gifts will have abundance and you

you know this was spirituality right yeah

um if we take a gift and we're like oh

I don't think that's really special

and we just kind of put it off to the side

or we don't nurture it and create more with it right

it kind of dies out you know right right

so we're nurturing ourselves

and so this No. 6 to the No. 6 is a wise sage

you have a Nate wisdom your wise to life

you look inside of yourself and you have the answers

and others are meant to see

you as a role model

now the No. 2

which is the second number

the way others see you is you're the natural

there are certain things

you seem to be effortlessly good at

without really knowing how you got there

um there's this pressure in the world

to have qualifications but your own experience

are your qualifications enough

that's all you need um

and you

you're in your zone of genius and that readily appears

and you just go with a flow and you can get it done

now when the 6

2 come together kind of this conglomerate

you like to focus on depth and meaning

your business is about seeing

higher standard of how things can be done better

and how you can bring that into life

so that others can have a better life in business

of their own um

there's this part where there's this kind of

perfectionism of it

and you want things to ride in a certain way

and be perfect you know

so dropping that expectation of perfectionism

knowing again that what you're doing

because you have this wise age

because you're natural it all comes together

it's all just inside of you

so opening up to that flow is beautiful

how have you and what are your thoughts on this gift

and how have you seen this gift

yeah you know what's so funny Courtney

I I don't remember if you knew or not

but like my Facebook community

my branding is the better club

no way no

no haha

and it's all about being better

doing better

and having better in life than in business

and I'm really just wanting to help people

just like I said mine out

all of the amazingness within them

so that they can show up as the best versions

are better versions of themselves than they were

the day before right

and so that's so fun

and it's really interesting that you say that

because I think that it's really hard

for all of us to really know

how other people perceive us

uh huh and

you know you

you just assume that that's how everybody is

you don't see how everybody sees you

and it's interesting because as a generator

like I'm always you know

always working on something right

and I would say that

some of

the things that I've done have come naturally to me

but I would say most of it I've worked my butt off for

right

but it's been interesting because I do hear that a lot

like it just seems to come easy for you

or things just seem to happen for you

and you know little do they know that I'm like

the little duck with the you know

feet slapping underneath the

underneath the water and stuff

but yeah that's really fascinating that

that is something that I have heard before

and yeah yeah

well and now like you can really um

see that that's a divine gift of yours

you know

what I think is so fascinating about human design is

it's not based on any other information

other than our birth right right

and so um

I

you know there's no questions that were asked

and so when we look at other in this

not that human design is a personality test

but we can kind of relate it to some

maybe something like that and to give it some context

but um

it's really like when we're taking strength finders

or anagrams and those are all super cool

and they all have these and I love them so much um

but what I have thought in the past is well

what I mean maybe I was hungry

you know what I answered the question wrong

or I was hired or I had an off day

you know so my brain tends to think well

I know

this test kind of told me these strengths that I have

but I really don't think that's right

so I'm gonna outthink that

and just kind of cut that to the side right

this tells you yeah

like hey

this is a chart and so the adaptability

and I'm sure with your clients you do this too

like that brain overthinking

you know our guests over analyzing things

yes really something to play

and this kind of kicks it out to the curb

absolutely I love that

and you know

one of the things that I'm doing in my new anesthesia

you know role is epidurals for babies

and like

I honestly ever since I took this test with you

like every time a baby is born that I'm there

you know to help with that situation

I'm like oh my gosh

like I wonder what their charts gonna look like

it's so fun

that is so great love that

oh my goodness that's beautiful

um on your chart

what also stood out to me as your remote um

emotional inner authority

now inner authority is our GPS

it's our guide it's this internal clock of like

how do we make decisions best

but how do we make decisions best

our way right right

um and yours is emotional

and this means that you have this constant

emotional ocean you're kind of up and down

you know riding this emotional way right

and this is not there's no bad or goods to human design

it's just how you are yeah

so beautiful

we're gonna jump into your chart and see why

having your defined emotions are so beautiful

so I can't wait um

so you give your

give yourself space as you're making decisions um

to not feel too high to not feel too low

kind of like the ocean

that has that stillness and that low time

that's what you want

you don't want to make decisions right off the bat tray

so when um we look at business and life too

people are like well you

you gotta make a decision really quickly

you know keep up the pace

just make a decision well

you can take that thought

and you can kick it to the curb

and when people are asking you hey

can you just make a decision

just be like hey

I haven't settled on this

I need more time you know

and if

you're trying to push yourself to make a decision

which we all do you know

just hey you know what

I'm not settled on this

I need to give myself some more time um

and allow that decision to come and resonate with you

you know feel into it because um

you'll be shown the way about how to make that decision

if once you're in that kind of stillness spot

and even when you're in that stillness

you might still think okay

this is what we need to do

but I don't feel quite 100% on it

you know they'll be this more like 80%

maybe even 75 is your new 100%

so that's your new like okay

this is gonna be fine you know

that type of thing

so I would love to hear how that resonates with you

and what your thoughts are

as you see that in your business

in life yeah

no I think that it's funny because I

you know do a lot and my assistants are like

okay now what do you want to do

you know it's so funny

but it's like when an idea pops into my head

oftentimes I just like go and I execute it

because I feel like I'm gonna chicken out or

you know like it's really just that okay

I'm inspired and I have the energy right now

and I don't wanna like

chicken out or talk myself out of it

so I go and I do it so

which was would explain why I have like

you know a million things going on right

and I think that I

I'm learning to trust myself more and say okay

like yes

the sound like amazing idea

but I love how you said that

just to take a moment and have that time with myself

and say okay

does this feel restrictive or expansive

is this something that you know

I'm being called to do right now

and so timing is everything

and I feel like sometimes again

that I you know

jump into things because I have the motivation

or I have the idea or I have the

you know courage

but it's okay it's like

take the time

and make the decision when it's the right time

and if it's the right that

you know thing to do right yeah

and if it's the right thing

it's gonna stick around you know yes

that's holding power and so whenever we say yes to um

things we also say no to other things right

cause even as a generator

you cannot do it all

even with your team on board

you can't do it all so to really look at like

what are those things that are really resonating

and I love what you said is it expanding to me

is it rising or is it constricting

you know and that's such a great way to um

use this inner authority like

is this feeling um

and what am I tapping into to help me with that

well um

it's interesting you said you had that this willpower

right to get it done and you have to get it done

that is based in your chart

that is based in the gifts that you were born with

so on your chart either that diagram with a person

yeah and it has all these energy centers on

their energy centers

and human design are like a lot like chakras

and human design has nine of them

and these

energy centers give us gifts that we can have with us

always so the ones that are defined are colored in

and those are stable gifts that we always have with us

that are always there

that we can lean into in different situations

when I'm going into a speaking event

I have a defined throat

which is the gift of communication and manifestation

and I think okay

I've got this here we go

just let her ease and roll

you know type of things so

so um

we can help our brain again to be like yeah

that's right girl you got this

you know yeah

opening so your centers

the ones that you have um

the gifts of always are your G Center

which is identity

so this identity and purpose that you have

this feeling like you're um Michelle

whether you're out in the park

or you're around a bunch of friends

you know

whether you're by yourself or you're with others

none of that really determines who you are

cause you're stable and who you are

kind of this North Star right

um now you have the heart

which is willpower

so that will power to get things done that like

you know like

um most like think of that thing like okay

let's go you know yeah

kind of have to balance that emotional in earth 40

with that will power and be like

will power we're gonna hold just for a second

I'm gonna get back to you and once you do

once you settle on that right thing

you can engage that will power and it can go far um

you have the solar plexes

which are the emotional center we think um

often times in business that you know

business is just here we are

here's we're gonna show up strong

but emotions play into business

emotion plays into connection is so beautiful

and then you have the route

which is your drive so the gift of drive

so you see with the gift of drive and your sacral

which is your energy center

the gift of energy center

if you have all these driving centers that are like

let's do this Michelle

let's go you know

they're all combining together

but then you also have the gift of the spleen

then the spleen is all about intuition and senses

so feeling into like um

is this an intuitive yes

you know again

is this an expansion

so you can look at your emotions and see okay wow

look at this you can check it with your intuition

and have another checkpoint like yeah

my intuition is saying yes

my emotions are saying yeah

that's a pretty good go so let's do it

you know so

how have you used any of these gifts

within your business yeah

well I would think that

I mean I think that the

will power and the drive just makes so much sense right

because like legit like my poor assistants

they're just like what are you doing now

like what are you what are we doing now

you know and it's

it makes sense though because I just

I feel like there's this this

you know drive within me

to know that I'm given this one beautiful life

and I wanna make as much of a difference in

impact as I can in the time I've been given

I don't wanna waste any of that right

and so I feel like one of the things that I have

you know found that successful

successful people do

is they have this desire for better

that they make the decision to commit to it

and then they do they execute

they get things done and I think that oftentimes

we hold

ourselves back from success by just not implementing

and so I think that

that's possibly something that I've been able to

not only do for myself

but help other people figure out how they can

it execute how they can get into action

even if they don't have you know

some of these

these same will power and drive gifts that I do

so yeah well

and that brings up such a good point

because you have these gifts

you can impart these gifts

and this pathway

of how you utilize those gifts to other people

so like um

I only have two define centers

it's the throat and the identity

but when we're talking I'm like

oh my goodness I'm gonna go out there

and get my next offer on the table

do you know cause I have it all down um

I just need to do it to the next thing

so I'm writing almost the

your gift and your apartment of the power of that gift

and so yes when you're connecting with others

and you're coaching others

that gift shines and it

and goes into their influence as well

and they can harness that gift and ride that

so it's beautiful to not have that define center

but to find a tribe of people that do

where you can really feel that and you have that

so of course

your coaching clients are gonna have that access to

which is so cool yeah

that is so fascinating Courtney

because

the thing that I concentrate on with my clients is

No. 1 giving them the certainty

the clarity and what it is that they wanna do

so that brings the identity and all the things that

and emotional center in that confirmation into that

makes sense and I

and I really try to help them with confidence

and I help them with consistency right

and so I guess

I can see how all of those things really do work well

with everything that you're telling me today

oh that's so beautiful

I I love that

another part of your chart that spoke to me um

and is your channel now

channels are a line that go from two define centers

and they kind of light each other up like

almost like a lightning bolt right okay

we are pathway now

channels give us gifts and flavors of our personality

that we can utilize and harness

you have the 40 37 which is the heart

starting from the heart to the solar plexes

so again this will power to your emotion center

and this is the love of communion with a tribe

this is your giving to the tribe

that you're a creator of a tribe

and it means a lot of to you to have soul family

not only your own family

but this soul family surrounding you okay

you're not interested yeah

yeah okay

tell me about that no

I mean that's just it

like I mean every

every honestly

my entrepreneurial journey started

when I started network marketing

six years ago right

it was the first time in my life

where I felt like I was part of this tribe of people

who all had a similar like

mission of making an impact in the world

and making their lives in

the people that they care about better

and since then

I've gone on to create different communities that have

a membership community within my own that

that it is like

my favorite thing to connect with them

and to build them up and to

to just when you're around other people

that have the same energetic

you know vibration and

and passion and heart like I

I light up I light up being around people that

that are part of my tribe so oh

that's that's amazing

yeah and that um

plays in with your generator energy

like it refuels you

it's almost like putting more gas in the tank

it's like yeah

you do you know

you come off of those like energized

no matter what time of day is it

or whatever else you've done

it's like that's your goal

and so as you surround yourself with that um

it's a vital part of your mission here in your life

and in your business

now I have going on with that

there's another channel it's 59 6

and this is from your emotions to your energy center

okay and this is the feeling of attunement

with closeness with others

this bond making

that you really want to be connected with

facilitating closeness

and breaks through people's reservations of like oh

I'm not sure you know

like but you can connect

so whether you're in a post or you're in a story

you're on a live and people are watching

you can make those real connections

in those communities and in those events

and you're a good connector with other humans

that's your gift is that connection

and how has that gift enhanced your coaching practice

I'm making missions yeah

I mean gosh

like I I just

I don't even know how to describe it

to be honest with you like

it is just this deep

energetic connection that I have with people

and I and I genuinely like

want them to know that

they're the most important person

the most important thing to me in this moment

and I and I tend to

you know

lean in and I tend to just do active listening and

and mirroring and

doing the things that I can

to make them feel that they're important to me

um I also love to be vulnerable and authentic

so that they understand like I'm

I'm gonna be right there alongside of them

I love love

love connecting with people

and that's actually something that

you know people had asked me

when I started to go into anesthesia

years and years ago if I was really

you know

wanting to do that because I'm such a people person

but what I was trying to explain to them is that

when I get the chance to have somebody no like

and trust me in less than five minutes

like literally

I have their life in my hands

and I get to connect with them in this

smallest bit of time

but they know that I'm gonna be their protector

and I'm gonna be there to make sure that they're okay

like that is so fulfilling to me

to make those deep connections in a fast way

um that it builds me up

oh that oh

like that's I'm getting goosebumps

that's so beautiful and that's really

like

having that gift and that ability crosses demographics

it crosses country lines

it doesn't matter where you are or what you're doing

when they're in your sphere of influence

they're gonna feel that and

leading with that gift is going to create

this expansion and this fulfillment within you that um

just makes all the difference

makes all the difference um okay

there's

one more part of your chart that I wanted to dive into

and we could go on and on and on

this is just great

um it's your um

gate and gates are halfway

they go halfway to an energy center

they can start on undefined energy centers

the white centers or they can be on defined centers

the colored and centers um

but they still bring gifts and um

things that we can lean into even more to accelerate

and how

that velocity and that fulfillment in our businesses um

so yours the first one is um

the solar plexes your emotion center and it's 55

and this is feeling the fulfillness of life um

you're called to feel good about life

like you look at life as a great beautiful

bountiful picture

um and people are like

how does she have this how look

I want some more of that right

and we know I mean

it's not because you haven't had an easy life

which I'm not saying because I don't know your taste

right right yeah

no listen

she know we live in a world so we're gonna be beat up

you know um

and then you have this other gate

which is 36 and it's um in the same

coming off your emotion center

and it's solving emotional um issues

you learn how to solve

your problems through your emotions

utilizing those emotions as a guide

they give you clues about how to solve that

next problem

so it's kind of think about is this intuitive nature um

but you're using those signs um

and looking at things that life is good

let's point in this

direction and see what life can offer to us

now emotions and business is good

it's good to have those emotions and those checkpoints

it leads to authenticity

and how have you used those authenticity and emotions

to against further your business and to expand

yeah I mean

I think that you know

just in my connectedness with people

I really do want to

to expose my vulnerability and my authenticity

and allowing them to see you know

my imperfections

because I always want people to understand that

I'm gonna walk alongside of them

I'm not gonna talk at you

I'm gonna sit with you right

and I think that that allows that to happen right

if we can just be human ourselves

and just genuinely care for other people

we can walk alongside of them on their journey right

yeah exactly

and it's and it becomes this co creation yeah

what is next and right for the person

you know like

it's like

personalized within their space of how can we move you

you know yes

yes absolutely oh

that's so beautiful well

Michelle this has been beautiful and again

we could go on when I'm on your beautiful chart

but really like looking at how these emotions um

this connection really drive your business um

to the next level and to expansion

and to the beautiful places that has been

and that it's going is so beautiful

because you bring these divine gifts to the table

you're helping your clients to really become

and to stand in their own

and to have the support around them

that they need at this time

so um

where can people find you and connect with you

we'd love to get to know where they oh thanks

so I just make it easy I brand myself as my name

so my I'm branded on Facebook

Instagram LinkedIn

TikTok all the things are my brands is just my name

and then the better club

is where I would love to connect with you

on a deeper level so inside the better club

we are literally a tribe of people

who want to connect with you

we want to help walk alongside of you

who you on encourage you

support you in order to help you be better

do better and have better in life and in business

so the better club would be an amazing

and then I have the unstuck podcast

which is always a great place to go

if you're feeling stuck

and you need some inspiration and some hope

and some practical tools to get unstuck

so oh

that's so beautiful I

I yeah

and that's so you you know

like as you're telling me

I'm like that is so her haha

so awesome that was great

thank you Michelle

so much for coming on today

so much has been beautiful

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