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Welcome to Become. I'm Courtney Koenig, your host, igniting you to become a powerful, profitable, purposeful boss. Today, we have a special guest on that I just love her so much. I can't wait to introduce you to her. Her name is doctor LaChelle Wieme, and she is a spirit led entrepreneur who knows what it's like to juggle a career, a family, and a deeper calling.

She left her 20 years nurse anesthesia career to make more money, more impact, more time with her family. Now she's on a mission to help other women strategize their escape plan, to scale their businesses, and level up their courage in order to finally create a life by their design. As a coach, speaker, and author, and podcaster, LaShelle uses her unique blend of brain science, quantum physics, and scripture to help others gain clarity, confidence, and consistency. She is on a mission to help multi passionate solpreneurs create sustainable income and impact faster. LaChelle, thank you so much for being on the show today.

My god. I love you. I wish I could just give you a big old hug in person for one of my favorite people. You are too. Like, I know we were talking earlier.

I was like, I wish I could reach out and just hug you so much. I'd love it. I'm so excited. I'm so excited to have you on today, and, I wanted the audience to hear about this book that you're releasing. And I want to showcase your design through this book and this journey that you've had, as an entrepreneur.

So if you could tell everybody what's your what's your book about? What, what can we look forward to? Yeah. Like, I so you guys, like, I always think it's fun to hear the story, like, behind the scenes. Right?

So Courtney and I recently went to Mexico together, and it was amazing. And just being around her and other, you know, really empowering women, I was so motivated to to come back home and to get it done. I've been having this book on my heart for years, Courtney. And And I was just like, I got back from my writing all of our time together. And I was like, no.

I'm doing this. And so I I canceled my calendar for everything. I put my my, you know, Foker blinders on, and I got to work. And I wrote the book that's been sitting in my heart for years that week. And now it's it's The week?

A week. A week. Yeah. Oh, a week. Oh my goodness.

Usually, it takes people forever to write books. A week. Wow. Right? Definitely realizing that I am like those that person that it's like an all or nothing.

Like, I'm like vision is like balls to the wall. It's like, let's. And I like, just even thinking about writing a book over, you know, an hour a day over this next 18 months. Like, I let's get this done. Like and so that's what I did.

Like, I literally just, like, put my blinders on, and I got to work. And I and I allowed God to speak through me honestly and let him hear what it is that people need to hear in this exact moment in time. And, and that's what the book's about. Honestly, it's really about all of us stepping into our divine purpose, which is, you know, what what you're all about too, right? Like human design and so beautiful because it's everything that was pre orchestrated without the the influence of nurture.

It's who we are put on this planet to be. And that's what the book's about. It's called Get Out of God's Way. And it's all about how we self sabotage. It's how how we get, you know, get in the way.

And it's it's really helping people get over themselves so they can step into the beautiful purpose that he has for your life and for your business. And it's inspired by my own journey, the things that I have had to learn the hard way, the things that I think God has uniquely gifted me and asked me to use for his kingdom, and also the ways that I have been watching my clients and the people that I've led over years, recognizing what successful people have in common, the most common roadblocks that people face, and how we can get out of our own stinking way and get out of God's way and start fulfilling that beautiful purpose that he has in store for all of us. Yes. I and, I wanna just unpack a bunch of what you said. You know?

Like, I love the first thing is you're like, I'm not gonna write a book however other people told me I should write a book. You know? I'm just going to write it how it comes naturally to me, which is put your head down, write it for a week, and be done with it. Like, that is so beautiful because as a generator, you're a generator, and you have this go go go energy, and you could put that focus towards that thing that you're creating. And you can really hone in on that and dial down on it and create it and create that magic while embracing, like, your processes, you know, and and how you want to do it and including your voice in there.

One of the things also on your chart too is you're this wise sage. You're this wise sage because you've gleaned all these experiences through life, and you're sharing all these innate wisdoms that you're naturally gifted, kinda like that old soul, you know, like, you just have that within you. This is like I I you're right. I mean, it's literally who I am at my core. It's like, why would any of us go through the things that we've gone through if somebody can't benefit from it?

Yes. Yeah. Wow. It's just like, how can I give you my wisdom that I've picked up sometimes the hard way, sometimes by the observation, sometimes it's just natural? But it's like, I want other people's lives to be better because of something that I've learned.

And so that's what this book is. I honestly, Courtney, I used to. I used to have things like this. I don't I'm I'm gonna admit this on air right now. I had this, like, subconscious little, like, judgment of people's first book.

So I'm like, oh, that's your first book, but let me read your 5th, you know, your best seller. Right? And it's just like, no. No. No.

Like, holy crap. Everybody's first book is, like, the best that they have, like, been boiling inside of them for their whole lifetime. And it's all coming together at this, you know, climactic, like, moment that they're sharing all of their life's wisdom in this one space. And it's like, okay. So now your second book is just like from that point to that point.

So that's not you know what I mean? And so, like, now that I've been through this process, I'm like, where can I read your first book? Because this is like everything that's been percolating for, like, 40 years inside. That is the best. Actually, I love that.

Yeah. Because I thought the same thing too. I'm like, oh, you know, I'll read, like, their latest book and stuff like that, but their first one. Oh my goodness. Well, and I, this is so buddy.

You still remind me of like Rachel Hollis, like the energy and like the, like, I'm gonna, you know, the sassiness and stuff like that. Like, and, and I fell in love with like one of her first books, you know, like that's where I got so much value from so much beauty. Yeah. So you talk about these like common roadblocks that like we get in our own way, you know, with this divine and I love the divine and the spirituality that you're bringing, because I'm a very spiritual person. And, like, I always, like, sometimes I get people who are like, oh, human design, that's like anti spiritual.

And I'm like, no. No. No. But I wouldn't do anything anti spiritual. Like, trust me.

And And that's one of the things I'm just gonna say because I you're the expert in the human design, and I'm learning. I'm incorporating it into my own, like, programs, you guys. Like, that's how much I believe in Courtney and and everything that she's doing. And you had mentioned in one of my readings that I I I trust my intuition. I let my intuition guide me.

I don't remember what that's called and what part of my that is. But it's, like, I knew that this had to be more than cerebral. Like, this had to be more than just, like, all of the wisdom that I have, like, mentally built up. I needed this to be God working through me. I needed to allow my intuition to be, like, literally in control of this and and sitting at the computer and just flowing.

And it's funny. Like, this is me calling my old lady body out, but I literally sat in such focus and flow, creative flow and and driven by intuition that I literally had a stiff back by the end of the week because I didn't move. I was, like, the same place that I was sitting. Like, I'm working with physical therapist right now. She'll teach me how to sit.

And she's like, Michelle, like, I've never had anybody, like, literally have an injury in their back from sitting so long, but you were like, I was in flow, sister. Like, in flow. Like, it was just common. Right? Oh my goodness.

And that yeah. And I feel like, Ian, you have a lot of intuitive powers on your, chart. You have a defined spleen, which is your intuition, and so you can really tap into that. And I feel like that connects us so much to God, and that connects us so much to listening to our bodies and really, taking away the overthinking, you know, the over, like, analyzing things that so oftentimes we do, you know, that's what gets in the way, you know, but tapping into that intuition and stuff is makes all the difference. Yeah.

Well and you would just ask me about, you know, the roadblocks that people have. Yes. That overthinking is one of the big things that I talk about in the book. Because what I have found is that successful people have this really cool progression of, number 1, recognizing the desire that God has placed in their heart. Like, he's calling you for more, and you can't ignore it.

Like, it's there, and you have to lean into it. So it's that recognition and that, like, obedience, like, okay, fine. I'm gonna go where you're leading me. Right? But then the second thing is that decision.

Like, I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna figure this out. Come hell or high water, this is happening. And it's just as, like, the state of being. It's it's owning it in a in a big way.

Right? And then the last thing is that they do, they get into action. But there are things like overthinking that can get in the way of all of those steps. Right? You might be overthinking like, oh my gosh, I'm not seeing the success of my business that I thought I would by now.

I must not be hearing him right. I must not be in the right field. I must maybe I'm meant to work instead of, you know, being being an entrepreneur. Maybe that's isn't for me. Or maybe, maybe this business model was all wrong and I have to change my strategy, or maybe I'm just not posting properly, or maybe I'm just not whatever.

And it's like that overthinking can get us really stuck and not following that desire, not trusting that desire, not deciding and owning it, and putting ourselves out there, or not doing the things. Right? Posting, talking, sales calls, creating the program in the first place. And and I I think that allowing myself to tap into that that part of my my human design allows me to help see other people's blind spots that they can't see, but I can. Right?

So I'm like, okay, sis. You're overthinking here. Let's allow and I teach people in the book how to use intuition. I teach people, like, trust. I teach people how to discern discern what God is trying to tell you.

And not only to hear him, but to trust yourself. I think that all a lot of us know God is trying to lead us, but we don't trust ourselves that we hear him right. Right. Yeah. And we don't trust that.

You know, we kinda tend to forget those moments of, like, spiritual download. Like, yes. This is what you're supposed to do, and it gets clogged down with other stuff. That's like, oh, well, this person's doing it this way. Maybe I should do it that way.

Or or did I really have that feeling, or did I just make that up? You know? Yeah. And that's all about the the 3 pillars that I that I base all of my stuff on. The book is based on that.

It's it's getting clear. It's getting really clear about where it is that you're supposed to go and what you're supposed to do and how you're supposed to show up. It's getting confident in yourself, confident that, no, like, this is where the Lord is leading me. This is what I'm good at. Like, my human design tells me that.

This is what where my my assessments that I I give my clients assessments so they can really understand how they are uniquely equipped and appointed in this journey. Right? And and when we when we can be confident in that, we can start executing that. And then the last one is consistency. You have to freaking show up, and you have to do it consistently in order for you to be successful.

And so all of those things come together to allow us to really step into that divine purpose. You know? Yeah. And just as you were talking, like, one of the gifts that generators have that they're so good at is they're great at reaching their own goals, and they're great at cheering others on at the same time. And you're such a cheerleader.

Like, you're so, like, invested in other people and that comes through your chart in different gates, you know, like, of being creating this togetherness with other people. That's what I feel like your book is. It's like, let's blink arms together. Let's do this together. Yes.

I mean, that's the thing. Like, I want you to believe that it's possible for you. And I that I found that that that is one of the most important things that holds people back in business. Is that they look at the the company, they look at the model, they look at, you know, whatever it is, and they think you know, maybe for someone else. But if it's not within your belief in you and that you can actually make it happen, but more importantly, that god can use you to let his, you know, power shine through you and and show his power off through your success, you're not gonna do any of the other things.

You're not gonna show up consistently. You're not gonna have the sales calls. You're not gonna post on social media. You're not even gonna, you know, design the business that you want. And so we have to build that belief in ourselves.

And sometimes, it's it's, you know, belief is of the mind, but faith is of the spirit. And I always tell people that if you're still struggling with the belief in your mind or even the faith in your spirit, let my belief and my faith in you guide you until it's there. Yes. Yeah. And it's real identity work, you know, manifesting the possibilities or identity work and spirituality is all about identity work.

Like, I tell, you know, like, our kids. I'm like, if you know you are, like, a son and a daughter of God, then you can do anything. And you know that your identity is not what social media tells you it should be. It's really an anchoring within your soul. And that anchoring and that identity shift is what brings in all the possibilities, is what brings in the manifestation, everything.

100%. In fact, I tell I talk about that. So I, like, you you know, sneak in, like, easy to understand quantum physics into this book, you guys, because I think that that is the secret sauce to getting in flow with God. One of the things that I describe my my journey in business in is that, scene in Finding Nemo, right, where Dory and Marlin are just swimming, and Dory's like, just keep swimming, just keep swimming. And that's like what we do in business, right?

Like, we just keep hustling and hopefully with a cheerful spirit, right? But we get tired. And God is saying, hey, I'm crushed the turtle. There's the EAC, the current that will shoot you straight into Sydney if you distrust me and get into that flow. And that's what I wanna try to help people do is utilize quantum physics and scripture to get into the EAC, to let them get beyond the just keep swimming phase and literally shoot them into the life that God wants us.

And that is done through something called the law of assumption. Right? Which is where we take on that identity of the person that is capable of making it happen. Guess what, guys, that person that's capable of making it happen is already you. But it's the version of you that God sees, not the version of you that looks in the mirror and says you suck, you didn't get this, you know, goal done, or you did not get this much money or whatever.

It's the version that God has seen in you saying, sweet child, I made you perfectly equipped for just the time as this. I love you so much, and I can't wait for you to show me off through all of the amazingness that you have. Now start showing up as her. And that's the law of assumption does is us putting on our crown and standing up tall and shoulders back and and owning it. And when we can do that, you guys, like that is the freaking EAC.

Boom. He shoots you right into the direction of where he, where he wants you to go. And so this book allows you to get clear on where that where where is Sydney for you? Right? Where is Sydney?

And how can you gain the confidence to trust that that crush the turtle wants to get you to the right direction, not to try to distract you, right? And then shoot you right where you need to go so that you consistently show up and show off everything that he's allowing me to do. I'm part of the ripple. I say to people all the time. I can't wait to see what he accomplishes through you by reading this book.

That's oh, that's magical. I'm in, like, real emotion over here. It's so powerful. Oh my goodness. Well, Michelle, this has been so wonderful, and, like, I can't wait to read your book.

I can't wait for the audience to read your book. How can they connect with you? How can they get, get your book? Yes. Oh my gosh.

I think the easiest way, honestly, is just to head on over to LaChelleweemie.com. You're gonna find everything that you need there. There's a link right to the book right inside of that. And you guys are gonna be listening to this, like, straight hot off the press as the book is pointing out. So I have a very special launch, gift for you inside of my my website.

So you're gonna want to make sure that you that you check that out. And then, of course, like, follow me. I have podcast, unstuck podcast, and then I brand myself consistently all over everything. So it's at LaChellewe me everywhere you go, and it's w I e m e. And, oh my gosh, Courtney, thanks so much for just being my friend, being my partner in crime with everything.

Thank you for being my cheerleader and and for serving people at the beautiful flow and confidence that you do to to everybody that listens to you. Oh my gosh. Michelle, same with you. Like, I just love you so much. I'm so grateful our past connected, and I do know that everything is divine.

And so and I'm so excited to read your book. I will get that, and we'll put all those things in the show notes. So, thank you so much for being a part of the podcast. And everybody, listening, make sure you screenshot this episode and put in your stories and tag Michelle and I, and we'll shout you out as well. Alright.

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