
[00:00] Host Alyece Smith welcomes Dr. LaChelle Wieme, noting her calm presence and unique coaching approach for ADHD entrepreneurs.
[01:42] LaChelle reflects on a stellar anesthesia career that still felt misaligned. Despite degrees, awards, and teaching at a top program, fulfillment was missing while family life suffered.
[03:50] Entrepreneurship enters through an unlikely door, a skincare venture that she felt divinely nudged to try. Curiosity opens space for a new identity and the possibility of a life designed on her terms.
[04:50] She describes being the mom racing to daycare at 5:59, driven by achievement at the expense of core values. Entrepreneurship reveals she can have challenge and impact without sacrificing family.
[06:40] LaChelle explains “I AM Life by Design.” Emphasizing the words in “I am worthy” shifts identity and energy. Identity precedes decisions and outcomes.
[07:40] “Life is happening for me.” She rejects being subject to circumstances and chooses to co-create with God, honoring desire, gifts, and purpose.
[09:42] Alyece shares moving from “I have to perform” to “I get to,” a reframe that reduces overwhelm. LaChelle agrees, tying mindset to freedom.
[11:27] Burnout story, in the operating room by day and hustling by night, stacking strategies in hopes of speed. She realizes no one is forcing the pace, then chooses ownership over victimhood.
[13:10] The Trifecta for Massive Change, quantum physics, brain science, and scripture. When combined, they raise consciousness, ease, and results.
[14:12] Framework overview, the Flow State Money Method. Step one is eliminating toxic thought patterns that produce confusion, hesitation, and low confidence.
[16:24] Brain science in action, the reticular activating system protects identity. If she believes prices are too high, her brain filters for objections, confirming the belief.
[17:57] Mirror neurons cannot distinguish real from imagined. Catastrophizing a sales call triggers fight or flight, muddling thinking and energy, which the prospect feels.
[19:43] Flip the script. Visualizing best-case scenarios shifts posture and energy. A recent call illustrates this, a new contact hired her on the spot, citing energy and positivity.
[21:54] Seventh-grade science refresher. Thoughts create feelings, feelings affect vibration. High-frequency emotions like love and gratitude correlate with faster electron rotation and a magnetic field for aligned opportunities.
[24:01] Radio analogy. Tuning to a frequency attracts matching ideas, people, and moments. Low vibration correlates with misaligned clients and stalled action.
[25:25] Scripture integration. She cites renewing the mind to align with God’s higher perspective. High-frequency thinking supports calling and impact.
[27:34] Step two, tap divine guidance. Instead of chasing every strategy, she teaches yes or no questions with God through the body’s signals to prioritize actions.
[28:02] Finding Nemo analogy. Dory meets Crush and catches the current. Likewise, entrepreneurs can release control, trust guidance, and let God accelerate progress.
[29:50] Step three, aligned inspired action. Manifestation requires movement. Delegation, automation, and organization help ADHD brains work smarter, not harder.
[31:22] ADHD context. The brain protects identity by default. Intention, design, and energy shift outcomes regardless of neurotype.
[32:20] Writing her book. She combines flow with hyper-focus, clears self-doubt, receives the download, and executes to bestseller status.
[33:48] Inside Spiral Up Success Club. Foundations of success, weekly coaching, and real-time “butt busting” to keep momentum while customizing actions to the person.
[38:24] Identity check for ADHD entrepreneurs. Claiming ADHD as a permission slip cements a victim story. Reframing it as a superpower rewires the RAS to find evidence of capability.
[40:33] Final charge. Choose to be a victor, not a victim. Make the choice that aligns with the life you want and call out the “but.”

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